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About Nicole Tabor, LPC

I’m a licensed professional counselor in Oregon based out of the Portland area who specializes in and is passionate about helping neurodivergent—especially late-diagnosed ADHD or autistic—adults with complex trauma who are struggling with relationships, disordered eating, burnout, or grief to reconnect with their bodies, create sustainable self-esteem, and build a more authentic, grounded life.

How I work:

Honest. Gentle. Human.

My approach to this work is deeply relational, somatic, and grounded in self-compassion through a depth-oriented lens to meet you exactly where you are. I see therapy as a process of coming home to yourself; learning to reconnect with your body, making space for your authentic self, and trusting your inner wisdom again or for the first time.

As a Certified Body Trust® Provider, I hold a non-pathologizing, body-neutral approach at the heart of my work and believe that your body is not a problem to solve, but a place to come home to. Body Trust® is woven into every part of my counseling approach as it is built on somatic, trauma-informed, and liberatory frameworks—guiding us to gently reconnect with your body’s inherent wisdom, challenge systems that have taught you to distrust yourself, and build a relationship with yourself that feels safer, softer, and more sustainable.

I view therapy interventions as tools, and not one single therapeutic approach works for everyone or will work for every situation; however, we will work together to find an approach that works best for you. Some of the modalities I work from include Attachment-Based, Strengths-Based, Compassion Focused, Feminist, Somatic, and Psychodynamic approaches.

Themes we may discuss involving these frameworks and trauma-informed lenses can include relational patterns, self-esteem, and the innate internal strengths I believe are at the core of every human being.

Therapy with me is…

  • Compassion isn’t something I talk about abstractly—it’s the felt sense of being met without judgment, pressure, or performance. In our work, you get to show up exactly as you are: uncertain, grieving, hopeful, numb, messy, tender, or all of the above. I hold space with steadiness and softness, helping you untangle what hurts while honoring the parts of you that have been working so hard to survive. My compassion is active: it looks like curiosity, pacing with you, and offering warmth that doesn’t overwhelm. It’s care that helps you breathe a little easier, feel a little more human, and begin to move through your healing at a pace your whole system can handle.

  • Grounded, for me, means we stay connected to what’s real, present, and doable—no rushing, no overloading, no getting swept away in intensity without an anchor. I help you slow down enough to notice what’s happening in your body, what feels supportive, and what doesn’t. We move at the pace of your nervous system, not at the pace of urgency or expectation. My work is practical and rooted: we build tools that actually fit your life, return to the basics when things feel chaotic, and create a sense of steadiness you can feel in your bones. Together, we bring clarity, context, and calm to the places that have felt chaotic or confusing, so you can move through your healing with more presence and trust.

  • I don’t ask you to show up any other way than how you are. Authenticity means you get a real person in the therapy space with you, not a blank slate or a scripted version of a therapist: I practice being a human first before anything else. I show up with honesty, warmth, and a grounded presence so you can feel safe bringing your full self into the space. I pay attention to what’s actually happening between us, name things gently when it’s helpful, and hold a space where you don’t have to pretend, perform, or tidy yourself up. You’ll never be met with jargon or a “therapist voice”—just real conversation, real care, and real human connection. My authenticity is an invitation: for you to be more fully yourself, to trust your own knowing, and to build a collaborative, therapeutic relationship that supports deep, sustainable healing.

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My Education

I hold a Master of Clinical Mental Health Counseling from George Fox University, a Council for the Accreditation of Counseling and Related Educational Programs (CACREP) accredited program. I pursued mental health following my studies and experiences of disparities in rural communities in my obtaining of my Bachelor of Science from Oregon State University where I studied agriculture, public health, and writing.

I have been trained in trauma-informed methods, attachment and systems theories, paired with a lifelong relationship with learning and educating myself, where I strive to meet clients where they are at in their individual stories to inform my work based on these trainings, individual goals, and desired outcomes.

Focus &
Population

  • Attachment & Relationships

  • Childhood Abuse & Neglect

  • Complex/Chronic Trauma

  • Grief & Loss (Including Non-Death)

  • LGBTQIA+

  • First-Generation College Students

  • Intergenerational & Family Trauma

  • Neurodivergence (ADHD/Autism)

  • Recovery & Maintaining Sobriety

  • Rural Populations

  • Spirituality & Religious Trauma

  • Women’s Issues & Empowerment

Training & Modalities

  • Certified Body Trust® Provider

  • Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR—Weekend 1)

  • Feminist, Anti-Oppressive, & Liberatory Frameworks

  • Integrative Somatic Trauma Treatment

  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)

  • Narrative

  • Person-Centered

  • Psychodynamic

  • Relational & Attachment-Based

  • Strengths-Based & Compassion-Focused

  • Trauma-Informed Clinical Supervision

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Get in touch

Let’s figure out what healing could look like for you.